Would You Let Women Teach How to Make Love?

Let Women Teach Women how to Make Love

For some women, their spouses are their main sex teachers and instructors. For other women, they have achieved their sexual wisdom and skills through independent reflection and experimentation. Their experiences are diverse, but they all lead to the same conclusion time and time again. These days people are also experimenting with sex products like adult toys for pleasure. Sex is so much in mind that the demand of adult theme parties is increasing and related objects like adult cakes for their parties is increasing too much among youngsters. People seem tot be becoming sex obsessed. Learning to accept self is the cornerstone of learning to make love. At the same time, their experience also reveals some general principles.

 

Making love is not just the mastery of technical skills

Case 1: Sharon is a 30-year-old violinist. She was only 23 years old when she married Kevin. She felt that others would have sex, but she would not. In order to satisfy her husband, she read a lot of books to learn the techniques of sexual intercourse.

 

She proposed two or three different sexual positions every night, thinking that Kevin might be satisfied. On the contrary, Kevin felt something went wrong. One night she asked frankly: "Do you like sex with me?" 

Sharon was embarrassed, and after thinking about it, she frankly said, "No, I don't like it."

 

Kevin asked her: "What changes do you want me to make to satisfy you?" 

Sharon suddenly realized that the key to the problem lies in her.

When making love, she just rigidly follows the procedures written in the book instead of following the procedures in the book. 

Do it with my own feelings and desires, so during the whole process of making love, I was too nervous and too rigid to enjoy the natural joy at all.

 

The pattern of sex life is not single

Case 2: In addition to the regular sex life in bed at night, there can also be all kinds of improvisational and very charming sex lives. 

Sharon recalled that one day after she had just showered, she wrapped herself in a bath towel and walked into the living room. Kevin was sitting on the big sofa watching TV.

 

At that time, Sharon was in a good mood. She snuggled into Kevin's arms and whispered intimately, and then teased him jokingly, which led to a very passionate sex. Although it is completely improvised, it is extremely exciting. Sharon said: I am so happy because I see that I have the charm to mobilize him.

After the matter. I once felt a bit inappropriate about this breaking of routine sex life, but Kevin said it was great, it was great. 

This gave me a new understanding of sex life. If Kevin had a slight criticism about this sex life, I would bury this diversified sex life pattern forever. 

 

Although sex education experts often advise people not to put such "fetters" on their sex lives, some prejudices still bind many people. For example, a man must be on top, sex is to have sexual intercourse. 

Sexual intercourse must have an orgasm, otherwise it is a failure, only vaginal orgasm is the real orgasm, and so on.

 

All of these seem to be the elements of "regular" sexual intercourse. If you violate it, there is something wrong. In fact, these are not the essential elements of every spouse's sexual intercourse. "Sex life" has a broader and more content and patterns, and contains unlimited joy, waiting for the couple to explore and discover.

 

Later, they took the man's initiative and the woman's passive approach. She completely forgot about herself and went to enjoy the joy of love with confidence. Both parties are very satisfied. 

As a result, Sharon realized a new philosophy of making love: making love is not about what you are doing, but what you are feeling.

 

Compromise is also a technique for making love

Case 3: Anna is a 26-year-old interior decorator. She has a pair of plump and charming breasts. She also feels that the breasts are so sharp and rich. Therefore, she especially likes her husband to work hard on her breasts during sex.

In addition, she likes to have sex in a certain kind of music in a certain position.

 

One day, her husband said: "I don't feel much excitement or excitement about what you asked to do! I'm tired of doing this every time. I hope I can do something I like." Anna later Realize that "compromising with each other is also a technique for making love."

 

Of course, without verbal communication, compromise is hard to reach. For example, some people like to say vulgar intimacy in sex life, but the other person doesn't necessarily like it. 

Some people like it in sex, but the other person wants it. If both parties tell what they want to do, it is possible for both parties to get what they want.

 

As Lisa said: "If I didn't bring this up, he might not do it, because he didn't know that I wanted him to do it." 

Almost all the women interviewed said that it is necessary to achieve mutual communication "Sexual conversation" requires the courage to speak frankly, as well as the art of artful expression. 

Conclusion

Compromise between both parties, and more understanding between both parties. It may take a long time to achieve good communication and get the desired result. People always try to succeed in sex, no matter they need to go through problems even in heart conditions. People even not fail to make great efforts to increase testosterone, even taking possibly dangerous sex power medicines for it.  Now we understand how important sex in life is, specially for men as it seems.

 

Also Refer: How to Increase Testosterone

 

 

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